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Text Box: KC AREA CENTRAL OFFICE NEWS including excerpts from our venerable newsletter
 
Changing Times

Nothing Is As Constant As Change             

Vol. 42—Issue #1 January 2012

Text Box: ANONYMITY   

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Communication—Anonymity—Internet……...

Clicking “Like”

              Three years ago a friend posted a picture of me on her Facebook page.  I did not, at the time, have an account.  Just because I am not on Facebook
 doesn’t mean that I am not on Facebook.

              Today the speed of technology can dictate the speed of my, sometimes inappropriate, actions.  As the AA guidelines on Internet (MG-18) points out that today,
 “there is no need to let the speed of technology dictate the speed of [my] actions.”I am part of a group on Facebook where I can discuss recovery knowing full well that it is protected;
 I think.  “I think”, because an administrator made the group “Public” for two minutes.  In one swoop my anonymity was stripped from me.  I was no longer in control of my anonymity.
 Did the HR person that I am friends with see it?  One person tagged me in a public comment, “Going to an AA meeting to listen to Brian (my last name) share his story.” 
 I protect my anonymity and I hope that others will not be just aware, but mindful of my anonymity.

            Are social media sites like Facebook bad for the fellowship?  I feel they are not.  How do we apply the Traditions to these sites?  Today the membership has
 quick access to let the insanity out of our heads on a public media forum right from day one of sobriety.  When AA was founded it took a lot of work just to break
 our anonymity in the public media at the level we can today.  Are we as a group staying close to the Traditions and talking to the newcomer about the spiritual nature
 of Anonymity.  I am a posting example of the Big Book.  If I post “Sober 4 years!” and someone clicks Like or Comments, I may be inadvertently breaking their anonymity.

             Today AA has given me the gift of awareness of my drinking and actions.  It has also shown me how to take that awareness to mindfulness. 
Anonymity is not to protect AA just from the stumbling drunk.  It creates a safe have for the painful admission that one is an alcoholic and trust to discuss
alcoholism in the rooms.  Am I mindful of what I am posting on the internet potentially affecting someone else’s rights and livelihood; their Unity to the program;
the Traditions; and AA as a whole?

 

Brian G.

KCMO

 

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THIS AND THAT

by Sue Ann K.

STEP 1— We admitted we were powerless over alcohol and that our lives had become unmanageable.   I read this in the Daily Reflections and decided it said all that needed to be said about Step One.  “Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the equivalent of stopping drinking. But it’s pretty uncomfortable living on a concrete slab, unprotected and exposed to the heat, cold, wind and rain. So I built a room on the slab by starting to practice the program. The first room was rickety because I wasn’t used to the work. But as time passed, as I practiced the program, I learned to build better rooms. The more I practiced, and the more I built, the more comfortable, and happy, was the home I now have to live in. “     Make sure that you are building a good solid foundation. The concrete slab you are pouring must last you the rest of your life! I think the concrete slab is steps one, two and three.  My first sponsor helped me to build one that has withstood many a tornado. I hope yours has as well!

Now that the New Year is here, we at Central Office are going to be working on our 12 Step lists like never before. You may be getting a call from one of our volunteers to be sure you are still willing to serve. Your group will be passing around a new blank form for everyone who wants to serve to sign up.  We want to have all the 12 Step lists updated before the end of this year! Help us reach our goal!

20 years ago next month a man called Central Office to ask for help with his drinking. Someone on the 12 Step list was contacted and a 12 step call was made on him. That night, he went to a meeting of AA and took his estranged wife. She will be celebrating her 20 years of sobriety next month on the 9th.  He died drunk. We never know exactly how that 12 step call will turn out, but God does give the opportunity to anyone, anywhere…… Will your hand be there????????


 

Smoking or Non Smoking

 

Is your group policy listed correctly in our Directory and on the website?

 

Let us know…...


 

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MONTHLY C.O. DELEGATE MEETING

Next meeting on: February 12 at 10am at the Paola Group, 905 E. Wea St., Paola, KS 66071
 

REGULAR DISTRICT AND SERVICE

KANSAS 

Dist. 9 :  GSR and Service Mtg. 2nd Thursday each month, 7pm Bethel Group, 7856 Leavenworth Rd. Kansas City, KS

Dist 10:  GSR and Service Mtg. 6:30pm  1st Thursday each month, Leawood Group, 2715 W. 83rd St., Leawood , KS      

Kansas State Area 25 Assembly www.kansas-aa.org                               

MISSOURI

Dist. 2 Quarterly Service meeting January 15 at 2pm at Sober Skirts Group.

Dist. 3   GSR and Service Committee Mtg. At 2pm on the 2nd Sunday each month
(except for Mother's Day) at the Liberty Group,
1323 E. H Hwy, Liberty, MO 64068  816-781-9766.

Dist 6  Business Mtg. are held on the first Sunday of each month, before and after area
assembly:  1:30-3:30pm at KCMO #1 Group.  311 W. 80th Terr., Kansas City, MO.

Dist. 7 GSR and Service Mtg(3rd Sundays except when Assembly occurs). : February 19 Noon at Alive Again Group.
Next dates: March 18 1:30pm at Hope Group.

Western Area Missouri Assembly: March 24-25  - Sedalia Best Western, Sedalia, MO
Next dates:  June 16-17 and September 29-30.

 

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MAY THEY REST IN PEACE—THEY WILL BE MISSED

 

 

Cassi R.  South Leawood Group

 

Dorothy P.    Paseo  37yrs

 

Things we can not change

 

CELEBRATIONS OF SOBRIETY

Emmaline H.     Basehor Group        36yrs
Carl T.       Richmond Group             28yrs
Harriet R.         Paseo Group             22yrs

Willie A.         We Are One Group   15yrs

 

 
Congratulations to those who've celebrated!

It is suggested that a dollar per year of sobriety be donated.
You will be helping the Central Office keep services that keep
the hand of AA outreached.

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Are you looking for a way to do some 12 Step Work? There are many opportunities to work with the wet drunk and a lot of sober ones.  Carry the Central Office Pager for a week.  It is a great way to do a little service work. 

 OR

become part of the CO Clean-Team—The office is looking for people to sign-up to come to the Central Office once a month to clean us up and keep us spiffy!
Great way to spend an afternoon and see what happens at your Central Office.  Got time on your hand, don’t know what to do with yourself,  spend some time with us and do some service work at the same time.

Either way, call the office or come by.  816-471-7229 

OR

Jackson County Jail needs people to carry the message to inmates.  It would be a 3 hour commitment once or twice a month.  Call the Central Office or contact your District Committee Person for more information.

OR

The Chillicothe Correctional Center (Women) is looking for volunteers to take meetings into the facility.
Contact Cheri J. at 816.591.2924.

 


Group History

              Did you know that your Central Office has a folder for every group. We keep up with the groups beginning and moving or group meeting time changes. If you haven’t sent us a group history, please do so.  When you visit the Office ask to see if we have a group history on your group. We have a folder for every group in the area.  

              Contact the office 816-471-7229 or email:  centraloffice@kc-aa.org


 

Ways to support your Central Office
 

1.  Birthday Contributions—it is suggested a $1.00 per year of sobriety; some give more, the limit set by your General Service office is $3,000.00 per year.

2. Group Contributions—the office has about 240 groups listed.  Group contributing to Central Office on a regular basis is about 13% of the 240.
 

*3. Anonymous Contribution—An individual can contribute on a monthly basis.  With the same limit as #1 states. Some other Central Office have a “faithful fiver club” in which individual members contribute or pledge a certain amount to be donated on a monthly basis.

4. Pay for your literature orders when you get them.  Some groups are not paying their bills for 60 to 90 days. 
    Which makes the cash flow slow down.

 If you have other ideas that could be considered, please, we would like to hear from you.  Central Office needs your help.

 

*We have started a monthly contribution called Central Office Angels.  Those who would like to commit to a regular amount can put it on your credit card.  You need to come by and fill out and sign a form to let us charge the monthly amount to your card.  Thanks for helping us to help others.

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